Why Men Go to Strip Clubs
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For us women the idea of their man attending some backstreet perv parlour is just disgusting. Just the thought of some half naked, greased up, lap dancer waving her over inflated beach ball breasts in our man's face repulses us. But should it?
Some would argue that it's a man's basic instinct to look at attractive women, that may be correct but does that means he should actively seek it out, by going to a bar where the Panty Dropper isn't just the name of a cocktail?
Let's turn the situation around. Your friend offers you tickets to go see the Chippendale's waggle their hunky man pecks and stride around in less than a g-string, would you turn them down? Probably not, and this has less to do with perving at men, than it would be a fun night out with the girls right?
So why do men go to strip clubs?
They go to see attractive women naked. It's as simple as that. It's a guilt free way to perv at women. Those breast aren't attached to a nagging wife or girlfriend, they're attached to a woman who has no real identity, she is an object of lust, nothing more, and men like it that way. They don't have to take Candy Luscious Legs home or look after her when shes ill, she won't tell him she's too tired or nag him about the washing up. She will continue strutting her stuff until the cash runs out.
It also has a lot to do with power, these days men don't have much control over the women in their lives, us women do what we want and when we want. In a strip club the men feel like they have power, the more money they throw the better the show.
Yes going to a strip club is trashy, seedy and we'd rather not allow it, but can we really be mad at him? Probably yes, but it's lot less worse than him going to normal bar and being chatted up by various women who are prowling for a man, where he has the option to take it further. The strippers aren't interested in stealing your man, oh no Barbara Big Breasts doesn't want to steal what's in his pants, just what's in his wallet.
What are your thoughts? Would you be angry if your man visited a strip club?