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Signs he is in love

Thursday, 10 February 2011 Leave a Comment

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Valentine's day, the lovers holiday is here again and couples the all over the world will be declaring their undying love for one another, but what if your man hasn't said the "L" word yet? How can you tell if he really loves you? 

We all know men are mystical creatures when it comes to feelings. Not many men feel comfortable displaying affection unless it's of the lust variety, so what are the signs that he loves you?

Top 10 signs that he loves you:

  • He puts you first. Forget sport, beer and friends, he’s putting them on hold to spend time with you.
  • He’s making future plans and they include you. If he starts talking about the future, moving in or settling down, then he’s ready and committed to building a life with you. This is one of the biggest signs that he loves you, so take the hint!
  • He worries about you. If he wants to know you made it home safe or holds your hand when crossing the street, it may sound insignificant but he’s being protective. If he wants to take care of you then he's in it for the long haul.
  • He misses you. Missing someone is a sign of true love; if he wishes you were with him then his heart is in the right place.
  • He introduces you to his family. Family is important to most people so if he takes you to meet them or he invites you to a family wedding or birthday, he thinks of you as more than just a crush.
  • He stands by you through the tough times. Relationships are not all smiles and rosy cheeks, all couples go through hardships, so if he sticks by you through thick and thin you must mean a lot to him.
  • He opens up to you. Opening up is not a man's strong point; guys don't do mushy, so if he opens up to you it's a sign that he trusts you completely.
  • He knows all of your quirks and bad habits and he's not put off in the slightest. If he's seen you at your worst and he still doesn't lose interest, he's a keeper.
  • He kisses you on your forehead or holds your face in his hands. Guys don't tell, they show; if he isn't vocal about his affections then he's probably showing you in other ways. Watch his body language for tell tale signs.
  • He wants to go out during the day. Going on nighttime dates is great but what about the daytime? If he's making time for you during the day or planning activities for you to do together, then he genuinely wants to be around you.

So tell me girls, is he in love with you?

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  • Lizzie said:  

    I wish I had someone I could put to this test! But I like the criteria... going out in the day is VERY important :)

  • Jewels said:  

    If by "him" you mean my gay male friends or my father...then yup...they sure are. Ugh...being single sucks sometimes.

  • Cinderita said:  

    man..I wanna go out with whoever THAT guy is.

  • Alice X said:  

    @Lizzie Day time dates are always better as well. Thanks

    @Jewels Aww i'm sorry this post made you sad about single life :( Gay male friends are the best though!

    @Leah Thank you :)

    @Cinderita He's got to be out there somewhere, he's just hiding.

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  • Anonymous said:  

    this means my three guys friends like me? its nice to know now.

  • Anonymous said:  

    Yup he loves me :)

  • Anonymous said:  

    So lucky I found this man, it took some time but slowly we are starting to see past our egos and self centeredness. Not many can say or tell of what I'm feeling or have felt, and I can truly say it's worth all the pain and sadness on between.

  • Anonymous said:  

    You are spot on!!!

  • Anonymous said:  

    That's my boyfriend :)) he's the best

  • Anonymous said:  

    I love my boo so much and yea he loves me back

  • erica jarrell said:  

    This is my ex-boyfriend, what the heck? He was this way when we were dating and he is still this way toward me now. I don't know what to do, I keep hearing people say he likes me still, but yet he is the one that broke up with me. What should I do guys? Help please...

  • Anonymous said:  

    Yes!!! I knew it....deep inside you already know but sometimes you have been hurt in the past and just want to make sure. Yep...it's really this good and I'm as happy as he says he is!!!

  • Anonymous said:  

    my guy is in loveeee! :*

  • Anonymous said:  

    Wow!! Im so lucky, my boyfriend has all this!! Love you so much baby:)

  • Anonymous said:  

    Wow! I got myself a keeper

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